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11 February 2012

meeting of minds

When I first heard Christine talk about Mark, she used the words "soulmate". She talked of a man who wrote poetry, left quotes about the universe and astronomy on her work desk, and with whom she was able to talk to for hours at a time. A term lawyers use about contracts came into my head. It's called a "meeting of minds". If two people don't completely understand each other, the contract they made may be faulty to the point where it is almost like it was never made. In other words, there was no "meeting of minds". Often, when people call each other "soulmates" I suspect that what it is is really just a simple meeting of minds - the feeling that someone understands you, the knowledge that they will listen, argue to test your theory, and then support you, the comfort when you find you are wrong and someone is there to love you anyway.

I've known the bride for over twenty years. She's one of my best and oldest friends; the kind who can go overseas for years, then turn up the next day on your doorstep and it'll be like she'd never left. That's the hallmark of a good friendship, I think; the world can turn, but you guys won't. I wish her and Mark all the love and joy there is to wish in the world.

All photos by Rob. Email viewmorephotos@gmail.com if you want some photos taken for your engagement or wedding. To see other weddings and engagement shoots we've taken, visit here and here.





Photographer: viewmore photos
Styling: the Bride
Flowers: Friend of the Bride

15 comments:

  1. Well done Rob! Those photos have so much personality! And the bridesmaids are very pretty :)
    xxx

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  2. Proud of you guys, and so happy for them. I can't wait to see you. <3

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  3. Oh my word! So romantic! She is just the most glorious looking bride and the groom was just made for her. They make a beautiful couple! Love your photos here and the background story - makes me feel all wistful! *sniff*!

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  4. Absolutely stunning photos! You can see the love in these pics and the colours really pop! That last photo is just amazing.

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  5. A meeting of minds is a fantastic phrase. I remember during one particularly nasty period with a landlord, Tom's Dad (also once a lawyer) introduced us to the concept of quiet enjoyment, which is a phrase I've often thought of since.

    I would whole heartily endorse a series of blog posts around interesting legal language.

    These photos are beautiful and are so wonderful at telling a story. There is so much life, love and warmth in these.

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  6. The photos are wonderful, such a beautiful wedding <3
    http://cupcakesandtreacle.blogspot.com/

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  7. How sweet! I wish them all the happiness in the world.

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  8. Holey cow mama mia! Is this not the most joyful wedding ever? And I love the cakes so much, so original!

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  9. Ana b, these are just wonderful! I love, love, love every photo. The couple seem so sweet and genuinely happy - well done, Rob! And I love how happy you look in all the photos too (gorgeous dress btw ;).
    xoxox,
    Lar
    p.s. Those cakes are perfect and so lovely because they don't look like the classic wedding cake.

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  10. well the photos are just gorgeous. and the thought of the term soulmate makes me tear up a tiny bit. yes, i can be sappy like that! but it is nice to see couples that meet and just KNOW they are right for each other. it is fab. :)

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  11. well done. wonderful photos!

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  12. oh my Ana <3 there couldnt be any more perfect than this!

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  13. Oh these are absolutely adorable. How beautiful are these photos? I bet it must have been the most wonderful day and such beautiful weather too. Congratulations to your friends :D

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  14. I can feel the happiness in these photos.

    ♥ ♥ ♥

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